Friday, June 29, 2007

To pity or not to pity...

A recent chat with an old colleague...

*names have been changed accordingly


Dwn: remember N? he has resigned…

Me: eh? Why?

Dwn: turned out he hasn’t graduated. He repeated one paper but flunked it. He bumped into his former dean at his old university during a short course, and the dean was surprised to learn that he is now an executive in our old office, knowing that he never graduated.

Me: oh…

Dwn: the dean actually enquired about this at the HR department. Upon investigation, it turned out that when he applied for the job, N only submitted his transcript, and told the HR department then that he was waiting for the result of the repeated paper.

Me: and then?

Dwn: he flunked the paper again. But once he got the job, he kept very quiet. Until it all came out recently… so, he resigned.

Me: why was the dean so sebok like that?

Dwn: they said that back in the old days, the dean used to have some issues with N…

Me: so, where is N now?

Dwn: he is currently working at Company XYZ. Our former CEO found out about his situation and used his connection to get N a job.

Me: Alhamdulillah. Maybe his rezeki will be better there…

Dwn: true. But some of the officers in our old office are not looking at him kindly though. In fact, just the other day, your old manager said “macamana lah kita nak pandang dia lepas ni…?” Seems like our old office does deal with Company XYZ, so N might have to attend meetings in the old office…

Me: I’m sure he must had been thinking of something to remedy his situation… Besides, I personally think he performed well as an executive…

Dwn: apparently, he didn’t do anything for 3 years to rectify the problem. And he was already a senior executive, albeit on probation… In fact, when HR asked for a copy of his degree for confirmation purposes, he claimed that the university has not release it because he hasn’t paid his tuition fees in full…

Me: He is full of potentials…

Dwn: yes, I agree. But you don’t have to be too sympathetic though…

Me: huh?

Dwn: He seemed so ngam with you, yet he said bad things about you behind your back.

Me: really?

Dwn: yup, I can’t remember what exactly he said but I remember him saying such things… even though he often visited your room and discussed stuff with you…

Me: oh…

Dwn: yup

Me: never mind lah. I hope he will fare better in Company XYZ… he has a lot of potentials and it will be a waste if it is overlooked just because he doesn’t own a piece of paper called degree…

Monday, June 25, 2007

Tag for charity

Found this on Idham’s blog.

Got so excited over it that I quickly spreaded the words by mailing to mailing lists I susbscribe to, accidentally pronouncing that it had to be done by 26th June when in fact the original dateline is 26th August. Heh. Oh, but there's a new announcement saying that the tag mustbe completed by end of July because they will be visiting Darul Izzah Orphanage on 11th August


Anyway, here's the rules:

If you are tagged, you need to write an entry related to the meme. At the end of your entry you just need to tag as many persons as you like. You will then leave a comment in their blog to let them know they have been tagged. And to include this message, "By doing this meme you are contributing rm127 to the Darul Izzah Orphanage".

Then please copy and paste this rule somewhere in your entry.

The meme is about completing at least seventeen out of the following twenty seven sentences........ *These can be copied and pasted to your entry*

1. A person is only as good as... both his words and actions.
2. Friendship is always ..something to treasure

3. To love is to …accept the loved ones as they are
4. Money makes me ...pening!
5. I miss …being able to curl up in my own bed reading a favorite book without having to worry about anybody else
6. My way of saying I care is by ...showing I actually do care
7. I try to spread love and happiness by...not forwarding junk mails
8. Pick the flowers when..it is the right time, at the right place
9. To love someone is to ... be together, stay together and grow old together
10. Beauty is..often overrated, sometimes understated
11. When I was thirteen, what I remember the most was...feeling oh-so-grown-up being sent to a boarding school
12. When I was twenty one, I remember ...understanding what "broken-hearted" means for the first time.
13. I am most happy when ...everything goes well
14. Nothing makes me happier than ...making my loved ones happy
15. If I can change one thing, I will change ...the current president of USA
16. If smiles were…given more freely .then I..believe it could be the beginning of attaining world peace.
17. Wouldn't it be nice if we could…be more tolerant and accepting
18. If you want to ...get results..then you have to ...work at it
19. Money is not everything but..it is a necessary evil.
20. The most touching moments I have experienced is…kissing my parents’ cheeks right after I was pronounced a wife, since I was no longer just their daughter, but also daughter-in-law to others.
21. I smile when… I see a stranger voluntarily assisting an old/pregnant/disabled person
22. When I am happy, I..hum a favorite tune while I carry on doing houseworks
23. If only I don't have to ..write a lot of academic papers, then..being a post-graduate student would be a lot more fun.
24. The best thing I did yesterday was …being able to entertain my sons’ needs even when we were entertaining some guests
25. If I ever write a book, I will give it this title,…"Life is not all about getting all As"
26. One thing I must do before I die is...perform hajj with hubby
27. Doing this meme, I feel like ...asking every other blogger I know to do this too for charity.

The originator of this tag is aiming to collect at least rm10,000 worth of meme/tags from bloggers by end of July, so to support his noble cause, I in turn am tagging:

Kit
Zyrin
Kak Pia
Dikja
Kak Lela
Theta
Dakwanie

and all those who feel up to doing this

Once this tag is done, please leave a comment in Idham’s blog to inform him that you have done the tag. Many thanks and hope this small tag could contribute towards making some orphans happy, insya Allah...

Saturday, June 23, 2007

Kamogawa Sea World

This is a belated entry – a really late one in fact because this particular trip was taken back in March, using Seishun 18 kippu. Well, remember that we had to postpone hubby’s birthday celebration? We bought combo tickets for Kamogawa Sea World and Mother’s Farm. We both went to the former, but hubby took Mak instead to the latter because by then I already gave birth to Humaidi.

The quiet Awa-Kamogawa eki

Although the easier way to go to Kamogawa from Tokyo would be by taking the express bus from Tokyo Eki; since we already bought seishun 18 kippu, we took the over-2-hour train journey to Awa-Kamogawa from Asakusabashi. From Awa-Kamogawa eki, we took the free shuttle bus to the theme park.

Entrance of Kamogawa Sea World

We purposely went to Kamogawa Sea World on a weekday to avoid the large weekend crowd – but we forgot that it was during the school holidays, so the place was packed with shrieking kids. Like many places of interest in Japan, the theme park offered various rubber-stamping opportunity with the stamps located at various parts of the park. They even sold a souvenir stamp-booklet for 200 yen meant for kids that offers a small pin-up badge for those who completed all the stamping needed in the book. I bought the booklet just for fun, as it contained information on featured animals in hiragana and could be kept whether or not one got all the stamping. But yes, it was also fun queuing with kindergarten kids (exchanging shy smiles part, not the ignoring almost-rude stares part) to get the booklet stamped. In fact, I guess some of them might be thinking along the line of “what is this walrus-like obasan doing collecting stamp marks”. Well, I was huge then – what with being 9 months pregnant and all… In the end, I managed to get all the stamping needed and was presented with a silly pin-up button of a grinning sea-lion. Hubby asked me why didn’t I ask for the nicer button of the killer whales, to which I just shrugged and replied “ala saja-saja je, tak kisahlah apa-apa pun”

By the time we arrived there, it was almost noon, so we had to plan our move well so as not to miss any of the performances. I asked for a map in English at the counter, which also listed the schedules for all the performances, to which we tune our movement. It wasn’t that difficult to strategize actually since the performances last less than 30 minutes each and the grandstands are located almost in a row.

The major highlights are performances by a family of killer whales, some dolphins, a family of sea lions and two beluga whales. Then there were also side performances – such as feeding time for the penguins, the pelicans and the sea lions. It was interesting to note that we could see both penguins which could stand higher temperature in the outdoor as well as their bigger Polar counterparts which had to be showcased in icy aquarium.

Napping pelicans

The turtle said "Hi" on behalf of the shark and the sting ray...

For extra fees between 200 – 1000 yen, visitors could also interact and have closer contact with the animals as they could kiss, touch, take pictures and exchange smiles with the sea animal of their choice. I thought it would be cool to have a picture taken with the killer whale, but hubby immediately killed the thought by saying “tak payahla, buang duit aje”

1,2,3, JUMP!

We enjoyed all the performances tremendously – especially the killer whale show. It is actually a dual performance since one could either view it on the grandstand stadium or from the window of a viewing gallery below water level. Mind you – those who want to sit at the front seats must be prepared with rain coats because the splashes they caused were certainly huge. The park organizer even color-coded the benches (orange for possible wet areas, blue for potentially safer ones) and warnings were announced several times before the show began.

Lepas tangan pun tak jatuh tau...

Ok, jaga-jaga ye tuan-tuan dan puan-puan, lepas ni nak buat splash besar punya...

It would be better to purchase the rain coat in advance – perhaps at the Daiso store in the shopping mall at the back of Awa-Kamogawa eki. Snacks and drinks could also be purchased ahead at the Jusco outlet there- because yes, just like in other theme parks, the drinks and snacks in the Sea World are quite costly. (Unlike in Malaysia where Jusco is often regarded as a middle-class shopping place and are mostly found in big cities, here in Japan, Jusco outlets are mostly located in smaller towns. I think the only Jusco I’ve seen in Tokyo is the one which could be seen as one passes from Minami-Sunimachi to Nishi Kasai on the Tozai line subway, but I digress…) The cinnamon imo sticks sold at the stadiums looked very tempting, but I resisted it, instead just bought some potato fries for Huzaifah to munch on as we watched the comical sea lion show. It was humorous, provided one could understand nihongo, since the sea lions were performing some sketches.

Johnny-kun, the star comedian in the sea lion family

As for the exhibits, my favorite is their extensive collection of bizarre crustaceans. I especially enjoyed watching huge crabs which hubby and I refer to as ketam Hokkaido. And now we know that Huzaifah is terrified of eels. Our hero who normally is curious about a lot of things and rarely shows his fear, yelled whenever his Ayah put him close to the display window of some huge eels (which looked more like pythons than eels). I must say that I appreciate that information on the creatures are also provided in English, although most tourists we saw that day were Nihonjin. The “Tropical Island” exhibit area is a good reminder of home sweet home – what with fine white sands, coconut trees and even lying coconuts on the “beach”.

Ujai was really terrified of this huge eel...

Sungguh besaaaaarrrrr ketam itu...

Eh, ini kat Kamogawa ke kat Teluk Kemang ni?

Breathtakingly beautiful imitation coral reef

We spent more than 5 hours at the park – a worthy excursion since all of us enjoyed it, hubby, Huzaifah and preggy me. However, by the time we finished seeing the last performance by the Beluga whale at the Marine Theater, there was no more free shuttle service going back to Awa- Kamogawa eki, so we had to walk back to the eki, which took us about 30 minutes or so. Nevertheless, I must say that Kamogawa Sea World provides a healthy balance of education and entertainment, so personally I would recommend it for parents with school-going/kindergarten kids. I wish I could say the same for Mother’s Farm, but since both hubby and Mak (who went there when I was still in the hospital after Humaidi was born) gave it thumbs-down, I shall not comment any further.

Intelligent Beluga whale

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Random compliment

Conversation with a Caucasian guy in shorts and t-shirt I met briefly in the elevator :

Stranger: Are you from Malaysia?
Me: (startled) Yes, I am from Malaysia. Where are you from?
Stranger: I’m from California. I’ve been to Malaysia recently. I can tell that you are one from your nice headscarf.
Me: Yes, there are a lot of Malaysian women wearing headscarves.
Stranger: They are really pretty. I really like ‘em. I even bought some for my wife
Tink! (the door opened at ground floor)
Stranger: (as he moved out of the elevator) Well, see you around. Have a nice day.
Me: You too, have a nice day.

It is nice to get a random compliment. And nicer when you know that the compliment comes with no alter intentions. Even though it was just my scarf that got complimented on, it managed to get me smiling for some time as I paced the 10-minutes walk to the eki.

Of course, I didn’t confess that the particular scarf was actually bought in Salzburg, Austria, one hot summer, exactly 10 years ago...

Monday, June 18, 2007

Shuffle my music

As tagged by Zyrin

I already confessed to her that I mostly listen to nasyid and JPop - so this might be a rather odd mixture. Anyway, the J-Pop I listen to are mostly J-Dorama's theme songs (one that appeared in the list happens to be a song often heard during commercials here in Japan), and I think are quite popular at karaoke halls. I personally think Cik Kieli - yes, you my dear silent reader - might be able to guess most of them correctly.

As for the nasyids - well - it's a mixture of Malaysian and international; with songs meant for children, young adult and general public. I have a feeling that not many songs would be guessed correctly (if at all), but enjoy guessing anyway :-)

"Shuffle your music.

* Take the first 25 songs that come up and post a line or two of lyrics from each one. Try not to make it too obvious by posting something from the middle of the chorus or that has the name of the song in it.

* Post it to your journal and let your friends try to guess the songs. No one likes a cheater, cheater pumpkin eater.

* When a song is correctly guessed, strike it out and put the title and artist next to it."


1. Telah ku mungkiri janjiku lagi/ walau seribu kali kuulang sendiri/ aku takkan tempuh lagi - Mirwana x Jay Jay, "Aku Tanpa CintaMu" (Zyrin)

2.
Oh Allah the Almighty, protect me and guide me / to Your love and mercy

3. Kimi ga ima koko ni iru koto/ tobikiri no unmei ni/ kokoro kara arigatou

4. Agar terlerai kesangsian hati ini/ Sekadar air mata tak mampu membasuhi dosa ini

5. Cause who used to hold you, and clean you and clothe you? / who used to feed you and always be with you?

6. Shinjiyou/ futari dakara/ai shiaeru - Ito Yuna, "Precious" (Cik Kieli)

7. Boku no me wa/ kimi shika utsuranai

8. Diciptakan manusia sebaik-baiknya supaya menjadi insan berguna/ agar beriman dan bertaqwa

9. Now I ‘m alone filled with so much shame / for all the years I caused you pain - Sami Yusuf, "Mother" (Theta)

10. Tangan yang disangka lembut menghayun buaian/ mengoncang dunia mencipta sejarah - Hijjaz, "Sumayyah" (Hanis)

11. Atsui namida ya koi sakebino/ kagayakeru hi wa doko e kietano

12. Ku harap dia adalah yang terbaik buatku / kerana Engkau tahu segala isi hatiku/ Pelihara daku dari kemurkaanMu

13. When you find that special someone/ Feel your whole life has barely begun/ You can walk on the moon, shout it to everyone

14. Sabishii toki wa/ato sukoshi tsukiatte/ umaku hanashi o kiite kurenai ka - Hirai Ken, "Kimi wa Tomodachi" (Cik Kieli)

15. Kokoro no koe wa/kimi ni todoku no kana/ chinmoku no uta ni notte

16. Kekasih sejati teman yang berbudi/ kasihnya bukan keterpaksaan

17. Dosa-dosaku bagaikan pepasir di pantai/ dengan rahmatMu ampunkan daku Oh Tuhan ku

18. No you can’t take your big screen TV/ nor your variety of DVDs/ No you can’t take your designer shoes - Zain Bikha, "Can"t Take it With You" (Theta)

19. Arigatou to kimi iwareru to/ nandaka setsunai/ sayonara no ato mo tokenu mahou/awaku horonigai - Utada Hikaru, "Flavor of Life" (Cik Kieli)

20. Iman tak dapat diwarisi dari seorang ayah yang bertaqwa/ Ia tak dapat dijualbeli/ Ia tiada di tepian pantai- Raihan, "Iman Mutiara" (Zyrin)

21. Hontou no yume wa itsumo soba ni aru/ hateshinaku hiroi sekai hitotsu dake kagayaita

22. Omoi dashita keshiki wa/ tabidatsu ni no kirei na sora dakishimete - Shuuji to Akira, "Seishun Amigo" (Cik Kieli)

23. Bahagia itu ada di jiwa/ mahkota di singgahsana rasa/bahagia itu adalah suatu ketenangan

24. You, you’re not aware that we’re aware of your despair/ don’t show your tears to your oppressor - Sami Yusuf x Outlandish "Try Not To Cry"

25. Diam-diamlah sayang, jangan menangis/ doakan ayah semoga diterima - Ae-man (Originally by Nadamurni), "Di Pondok Kecil" (Anonymous)

UPDATED 24 June 2007

I am not sure who I should tag next since personally I found this one to be rather difficult. Nevertheless, I hereby pass this on to:

Kak Pia
Dikja
Theta
Rad
Dakwanie

Thanks!

Thursday, June 14, 2007

More flowers...

... to brighten up your day!
These were all taken in last spring. Unlike in UK when there are so many different kind of blooms in each season, the parks here are prettiest in spring and autumn.
Mind you, some of these shots were actually taken by hubby (who went out to Kinshi Park near the hospital) while waiting for me to deliver Humaidi ;-)

Enjoy!


"Turning to leave
cherry petals flutter around
departing guests"
~ Jane Reichhold






"My life flower
A millisecond
In an hour of time"
~ Hatamoto



"Striving at excellence
The tallest shrub
In a rose garden"
~ Hatamoto

Wednesday, June 13, 2007

Sakura to cheer up your day

It's summer in Tokyo now - no more sakura in sight.
But there is something about sakura that is just - well, uplifting.
So this one goes especially for Madam MDR with lots of cheerful wishes sent your way...


"Shining spring day
Falling cherry blossoms
with my calm mind"
~ Kino Tomonari




" Now the cherry blossoms
Begin to bloom
For you"

~ Heidi-Is-Cool

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Single at 30

So this year will go down in the Malaysian history as the one in which two prominent figures got married – Raja Nazrin and Pak Lah. Raja Nazrin being the cool, cute, smart (PhD from Harvard, not degree beli punya) yet oh-so-down-to-earth-humble price that he is would be remembered fondly by many for his polite refusal of the state government’s offer to allocate funds for the royal wedding. Instead he insisted on the money being spent on development projects to meet the needs of the rakyat. He even went on to ask that donations be given to charity in lieu of tributes and advertisement spaces in the media. That’s one real “Raja berhati Rakyat” if you ask me…

Pak Lah, who just got married again last Saturday, while he did mentioned something about not expecting people to celebrate his wedding when he goes visiting, had not expressly forbid others from hosting fiesta to celebrate his wedding. Personally I wish he has learned from Raja Nazrin – who had a really “sederhana tetapi meriah” wedding, with students and orphans forming part of the royal wedding guests, all paid by himself. But… never mind… Anyway, I wish both of them many years of blissful marriage, filled with blessings, mercy and happiness.

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I especially like the fact that Raja Nazrin got married at the age of 50 to Zara Salim who turned 34 this year. I am glad that he had chosen a mature girl in her 30s rather than someone in her blushing 20s. It said a lot and could boost the confidence of so many singles in their 30s. Now single girls in their 30s could actually look at the kepohchee who ask her the cepu emas question of “bila lagi?” in the eyes and say “Well, I’m waiting for my Raja Nazrin…”

Time and again I’ve heard of so many people labeling single girls in their 30s as too “memilih”. And if they are not married/engaged/in a serious relationship when they are past thirty, some would even be so cruel as to call them “desperate”. Which for the most part would be untrue. I have many single friends in their 30s, and I would say that they are pretty content and secure in their singledom. Sure sometimes they remain single by chance rather than by choice – but for most part, they don’t delve in it too deeply.

After all, there is a lot more to life than just being in a relationship. But it’s not that easy finding the right guy. And you can never call someone too ‘memilih’ when it comes down to choosing a partner. It’s only right to be careful in choosing, without being wrongly labeled as “too choosy”. Ladies in their 30s are not looking for just-for-fun guy to date, they are looking for someone who has the potential of being life partner. Never underestimate the X factor in looking for someone right – it goes well beyond the ‘standard’ 4 C’s (car, condo, cash and credit). Sometimes they don’t even mind being with someone who doesn’t possess the 4C’s – rather they go for a guy’s drive, determination and yes, personality. Until they find the right one, often they just go on to enjoy other things that life has to offer.

Like a friend once confessed, she would rather be single than in a relationship with the wrong guy. If it doesn’t feel right, what’s the point of being in a relationship? They have seen friends marrying their long-term sweetheart yet divorced after less than a year. They have seen seemingly successful career women in disastrous marriages. While trying not to be jaded about men and relationships, they are also thankful at times that they don’t have to deal with a lot of issues faced by couples.

Being single has its challenges, but being engaged/married/in a relationship, does not mean people no longer have issues to deal with. At least, the option is still wide open for the single ones. Yes, it could be lonely at times, and their lives might not be moving in the same way their engaged/married/couple friends are going, but not being in a relationship does not mean that there is something lacking in them or their lives. They are as cute, attractive, nice, sweet, talented as any of those who had been married or engaged – even more so sometimes. It’s just that they haven’t found that someone they feel worth settling down with. And that has a lot to do with ‘rezeki’ – and sometimes, a dose of luck.

I think thirtysomething (and older) single guys should seriously consider marrying a girl in her thirties. Most girls at this point in their lives know what they are looking for, know what are expected from them once they settle down and appreciate marriage more than those who got it easy for them. After all, they had been learning from their friends’ failed marriages/relationships. A woman in her thirties usually has learned to strike the balance between needing a man and being independent. She usually has her own money, successful in her career, could afford going on overseas holidays by herself, has a hobby or a pet she cares deeply about and often is doing something to better herself. It’s just that - at this point of time their biological clock is ticking furiously.

But that doesn’t necessarily make them desperate – because the golden rule of rather-be-single-than-with-the-wrong-person still holds. That's why we don't see them running to settle down with simply any Ali, Ah Chong or Muthu that comes along. They have their pride. They have their expectations. They have the X factor to consider. In fact, they have a lot going on for them, sometimes more so than people in relationship have.

Often they make better friends because they are more available – physically and emotionally. That’s why one could count on single friends for girls-only-outings. Often they are more committed and make better sister/cousin/aunt/daughter/granddaughter etc. And often they too could make better wife material than their younger counterparts. But then again, life is not all about getting married and having babies je, kan?


Saturday, June 09, 2007

It has been a year...

It’s been a year since we moved to Asakusa. A year since hubby accepted ICOJ’s offer for him to be the Imam of Dar Al Arqam Mosque.

When I look back – it seems that there’s not much differences since he came. The mosque is as quiet as ever, with little congregation on any other day save for Friday. Yet, in this past year, he has led several conversion, nikah and jenazah ceremonies. He had entertained a few requests from 5-star hotels wanting to buy praying mats and compasses as well as borrowed some Quran for their customers. He too had led several discussions on Islam with some police officers, intelligence officials from Japanese Ministry of Justice as well as entertained some questions on Islam posed by some reporters.

The police officers visit stemmed from hubby being stopped by a police officer. It’s rather common here for police officers to stop ‘aliens’ and ask for identification. Hubby had forgotten to take his “alien card” with him several times during these random inspection, but one time he purposely delayed showing his alien card until he reached the police station. The police on duty, who could not interrogate him much about hubby’s identification once he was showed the alien card, then began to make small talk about the mosque and Muslims in general. Hubby invited the police officer and his friends to come to the mosque to have lengthier discussion. That policeman did not show up but the offer was taken up by some other officers – two young detectives and a middle aged detective whose eldest daughter is my age. They came here for an introductory session on Islam, as hubby taught them some basics as well as answered some of their questions. They promised to come again, at least to return the books they borrowed, if not for another lesson.

Two intelligence officers from Ministry of Justice appeared one day; the senior one rather fluent in English while the quieter younger one has some knowledge in Arabic. They came to have a ‘routine’ inspection to ensure that there is no terrorist-related activity going on in the area. Hubby assured them that he would report it himself if he knows of any terrorist-related activities going on. He also introduced the senior officer to other ICOJ’s committee members, to prove that we have nothing to hide albeit not knowing too many details on the history of ICOJ ourselves. The senior officer visited us again after that, with two bagful of fruits as omiyage, to thank us for introducing him to the ICOJ committee member. But we had a feeling that it wouldn’t be the last time for us to see him yet, not when his parting words were “I’ll keep in touch with you…”

To my knowledge, this mosque had been visited by reporters twice since last year – one was by a reporter who saw the mosque’s minaret and stopped by because he was intrigued by such unusual scene in Tokyo. He used to study Arabic in Egypt and was shocked to discover that there are a lot of mosques – though does not appear like the ones he saw in Egypt – in Tokyo and surrounding areas. No, we never appeared in any newspaper the guy was not taking down any note or anything – it was just by chance that he saw the mosque and he stopped for a chat with the Imam, that’s all.

The other reporter was from TV Tokyo, assessing the possibility of making this mosque the subject for one program which is aired on Sunday evenings. After meeting Brother Ehsan, the ‘orang kuat’ for this mosque, he knew that it would be difficult to gather people here for the purpose of ‘acting’ in that documentary he had in mind.

Oh, and then there’s uncle Abe – the middle aged ojisan who first appeared in Ramadhan last year, telling us that he would like to learn more about Islam. There had been several subsequent visits – but he has yet to convert. Everytime he came though, he would ask for some amount of money – which he claimed he needed for electricity bills, for water bills, for rental, even for passport-sized photographs (we ask for 2 passport-sized photo for New Muslim certificate purpose). We never gave as much as he asked for - ranging from 10,000 yen to 2,000 yen, instead we gave a lot less (from 2,000 yen to 500 yen), and it’s been a few months since he last came here. Honestly, we doubt that we would see him again…

Then, there were several musafirs who came here for a short period of time, including Malaysians. Last March for an instance, there was a family from Penang who slept here for three nights. Their son was about to graduate in Kyoto, so when they came to Tokyo, they decided to stay in the mosque since the son could not find friends who could accommodate five adults simultaneously. Last April, we were visited by a group of retired teachers from Perak who stopped by at the mosque just before they visited Asakusa’s famous sightseeing spots – Nakamise and Kaminarimon. In both cases the visitors were surprised to learn that the Imam is a Malaysian, especially so upon learning that the Imam does not know much nihongo. By the way, another Malaysian is currently holding the post of Imam in another mosque – the new Yokohama mosque. There are a lot of Malaysians working in Yokohama, since Petronas has an office there, so the new Imam might had been brought here by some Petronas officer.

The past one year had been rather uneventful in terms of people coming to the mosque. On the other hand, we had dealt with lots of problems regarding the building itself. The thing is, when hubby was appointed, he never got any real training in terms of clerical and administrative jobs. He was asked to fax and post certain bills elsewhere, so that he doesn’t have to do the payment himself. But there had been occasions when we had the phone service and the gas supply cut, and he was blamed for not sending the bills to some committee member, although the truth is he did as per instructed every time a bill arrives.

There had been two incidents regarding the water pump – once in Ramadhan and later earlier this year. These, if you ask me, were accidents waiting to happen, because apparently there had been water related problems for ages in the mosque, but it was only recently when the water pumps were finally changed.

Then, there was the time when a piece of the mosque’s aged signboard fell down on the road. We were visited by the police a few minutes after that, as they wanted to see that the whole signboard got to be taken down so as to ensure no other piece would fell down unexpectedly and injure any passerby. Again, Brother Ehsan was called to the rescue.

And of course, there were the times when hubby decided to get rid of two truckfuls of unburnable garbage, kept for God knows how long in the first floor. You would be amazed at the amount of garbage the previous Imams/ ICOJ people had kept in the first floor. Unusable PCs, old refrigerator, other damaged electrical goods, damaged furniture, all sort of wires and tubes, wood planks and steel pipes, mismatched plastic food containers, et cetera. Two loads of one-ton truck, I kid you not. Some of the garbage were even located at the top floor of the mosque. And prior to that, he had gotten rid of some garbage weekly. We never knew who asked for that ojisan to come and collect the unburnable garbage; he claimed that one Pakistan or Indian guy in Nishi Kasai area had advised him to come and collect some unburnable garbage in the mosque. He agreed to dispose the PCs for no charge, but charged us 12,000 yen to dispose the rest of the garbage. It was actually a bargain, considering the City Hall would charge us 10,000 yen just to get rid of one refrigerator.

It’s been a year – not short nor quite long, not that memorable nor easily forgettable – and I wonder what is waiting in store for us in the near future…

Monday, June 04, 2007

The layered me

I have a feeling that this tag was started by an adolescent. It’s rather obvious isn’t it, what with questions on having crush, going to school, age to get married, yadda yadda… But hey, who says tags have to be perfect? So dear Theta, here’s my answer to your tag…

Layer One: On the Outside
Name: Azra Haida. Formal name Azra. Casual name A.Z. (as in ae zack, not ae zee). Kak/Kak Eda/Cik Kak to family members. Haida to hubby and some blogging friends in the blogging world.
Birthdate: May 10th, 1975.
Current status: Married, mother of 2
Eye color: Dark brown. (Hazel during my wedding though)
Hair Color: Black. It’s been ages since I last nicked leftover of Mak’s DIY dye kit.
Righty or Lefty: Righty

Layer Two: On the Inside
My heritage: Malay – Pattani. Ayah is from Kedah with Malay – Pattani blood, my biological mother is a Wan from Perlis with Malay-Pattani blood. If I use Javanese phrases, I got it from Mak.
My fears: Straying from the true path, losing family members unexpectedly, medical operations
My weaknesses: Sleep, procrastinating, teh tarik
My perfect pizza: Used to be Domino’s Chicken Tandoori, then there was a brief spell with Hawaiian Chicken at one small pizza stall in The Store mall, Bukit Rahman Putra, and although I usually order Super Supreme at Pizza Hut, am actually still on the lookout of that perfect pizza…

Layer Three: Yesterday, Today, Tomorrow
My thoughts first thing when I wake up: Dah habis Subuh belum, hah?
My bedtime: Depends on Huzaifah (and Humaidi too sometimes); ranges from 10.30 p.m. to 2.30 a.m.
My most missed memory: Good times in high school and University.

Layer Four: My picks
Pepsi or Coke: I dislike both straight, but don’t mind Vanilla Coke or Pepsi Twist.
McDonald's or Burger King
: Used to favor Burger King Vegetarian Whopper back in UK, but it has to be McDonald's in Malaysia
Single or Group Dates: Single
Adidas or Nike: Nike for shoes, Adidas for clothing
Tea or Nestea: Nestea
Chocolate or Vanilla: Chocolate
Cappucino or Coffee: Kopi Kampung, preferably home-made. Otherwise I don’t drink coffee

Layer Five: Do I
Smoke: Never
Curse: Not really, not habitually anyway.
Take a shower: Not as much as I'd like to, since I don’t shower daily here. (Sometimes it’s just way too cold to do so)
Have a crush: Not now, unless Kimutaku counts, heheheh.
Think I've Been In love: I am now.
Go to school: But of course!
Want to get married: Already am.
Believe in myself: Definitely – sometimes adequately, sometimes excessively. Heh.
Think I'm a health freak: Nay

Layer Six: In the past month
Drank alcohol: Never.
Gone to the mall: To buy baby stuff, yes. To shop – or even window shop - for myself, nope, unless you consider a 7-storey 100 yen shop a mall…(no!)
Been on stage: Nope
Eaten Sushi: Yup, when my brother was here
Dyed your hair: Nope

Layer Seven: Have I ever
Played a stripping game: Not yet. Heh (evil grin while batting eyelashes at hubby)
Changed who I am to fit in: Not really. Like I said - I could be overconfident sometimes...

Layer Eight: Age
I am hoping to be married: Was hoping to get married by the age of 30 and did so too, alhamdulillah…

Layer Nine: What was I doing
1 min ago: Talking to hubby
1 hour ago: Feeding Huzaifah
4.5 hours ago: Bathing Humaidi
1 month ago: Resting a lot because Mak was around
1 year ago: Busy packing to move to Asakusa (From Gyotoku)

Layer Ten: Finish The Sentence
I love: reading... Wish I could do more than I am able to right now.
I feel: blessed with what Allah has given me now, even if they are just on ‘loan’
I hate: being blamed when it's not my fault.
I hide: my resentments during crisis and try to look for solutions first.
I need: a long old-fashioned massage from a makcik bidan/tukang urut

Layer Eleven: Tag 5 people
Ok, as adolescent as this is, I hereby pass this on to Dik Ja, K.I., Zyrin, Kit and Kak Pia.

Friday, June 01, 2007

Demam

It started last week, with my brother who was here on a business trip. Unfortunately, for him it was more like a lie-down trip than a real business trip. He arrived in Tokyo from Korea on a Tuesday, already with somewhat high temperature. He and his consultant friend, Encik Aziz (who is almost double my brother’s age) was supposed to form part of Kekkwa’s delegation to Korea and Japan. As it happened, my brother was down with high fever. We even had to take him for an emergency treatment at San Iku Kai Hospital on Wednesday night because by then he was shivering and the thermometer read 39.1 degree Celsius.

He was literally down the next day. He thought he felt better on Thursday evening, so he joined hubby and Encik Aziz for a souvenir shopping trip in Asakusa.

Hubby decided to introduce my brother to Brother Harun in Matsudo (of Taj Mahal restaurant), since it might be an opening for a joint-venture or some trading in the future. As it is, Brother Harun is not only a restaurant owner, but also a trader. My brother too is not limiting his business to merely animation and TV programs production. Anyway – just as they were about to exit the train at Matsudo eki, Encik Aziz noticed that my brother was already numb although his eyes were opened, they were almost lifeless. Hubby and Encik Aziz had to quickly push my brother out of the train, after struggling to release his tight grip on the train handrail. For a while, he was laid down on the floor. When he became conscious again, the station officer asked him to rest for a while at the station’s office, which they all did.

My brother and Encik Aziz at "tempat jatuh lagi dikenang"...

They did had a meeting with Brother Harun after that - treated to a nice dinner and Brother Harun even made some cheese nan and tandoori for hubby to bring back for me and Mak.

Mak prayed that my brother wouldn’t had to extend his stay because it’s quite difficult and very costly for him to receive due medical treatment here since records on his tonsil removal operation recently are all in Malaysia. Alhamdulillah, by Friday morning, the day my brother and Encik Aziz were scheduled to return to KL, he seemed a lot better.

We checked on him a few days after that – just to confirm that he did not get measles. Well, the thing was – when he came, there was a measles outbreak in Tokyo. So bad that many universities and schools were closed, including Waseda which were closed for 9 days. Other leading universities that cancelled classes included Tokyo Nihon, Chuo, Sophia and Hosei. With measles being highly contagious, I was really hoping that he was spared from it – and alhamdulillah he was.

But the rest of us were not spared from catching the virus he left though. Last Tuesday, a day before Mak went back, I was down with fever. Took Panadol Actifast and rested a lot, but by the night I was shivering like nobody’s business.

Wednesday morning, I woke up feeling awful and the bleak weather did not make it any better. But I forced myself to wake up anyway because although we already asked a friend to drive us to the airport, I am sure Mak would feel better being sent by us rather than just a stranger.

Bye-bye Ibu, Ujai balik Mesia dengan Embah, ok? Ibu jaga adik dalam kain batik tu baik-baik ok?

I felt okay when we sent Mak to the airport, but when we returned I was once again shivering. Took Panadol soluble, and while it helped reduced my temperature for a while, I was again shivering later that night. When my temperature raised up to 40 degree Celsius, I quickly called hubby who was teaching in Ichikawa Ono to come back. To make matters worse, Huzaifah too was beginning to show symptoms of being unwell. His temperature was over 38 degrees and he also vomited that night.

Thursday morning saw both Ibu dan Anak seeking treatment at a local clinic.

Our temperatures are ok now, if you ask me, but both Huzaifah and I are still not feeling well. Huzaifah – who normally does not know how to stay still- is for once rather quiet. It was heartbreaking to see him refusing food he normally enjoyed, to see his reddened cheek when he vomited last night and to console his merengek last night while I persistently did the jelum thingy (using cold wet face towel to wipe his head and forehead) despite his refusal, before he could finally went to sleep.

We might have gotten the virus from Huzaifah’s Ayah Ngah–
but I think we got the demam because we both miss his Embah…

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